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Who picks the pieces?


Broken and still discovering the ropes with JC, one thing is for sure; This is not a once and for all deal but it is a process. People come in and out of your life, some once some several times and through it all it is your response to them that determines whether the brokenness proliferates or diminishes.
My birthday yesterday was a case in hand. Though hurting physically 'plusier' FB birthday wishes and love made me almost forget my pain killers. God does indeed use people to patch us up...

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